This is a very sad post to write. Those of you know us well know that for the last 7 years we have had the privilege and honor of helping Jack’s beautiful Mother. Half way down the mountain on the last run of the last day of skiing in Steamboat my cell phone rang and our Mina had suffered a massive stroke. We were at her bedside in less than 24 hours. She was unresponsive but I am sure she knew we were there as her respirations changed when we entered the room and she heard our voices. We were able to communicate some by hand-squeezing. Per her wishes, she was transferred to an an in-patient Hospice. Jack’s sister flew in from California and with the 3 of us tending she was never alone and one week later, with Jack and I each holding a hand she slipped peacefully away. The Hospice was an amazing place and the staff – ANGELS!! We are so grateful for their care. Losing a parent is brutal but they made it so much easier.
Mina was a remarkable woman – I never saw her mad, I never heard her utter an unkind word – she never complained, never asked for anything and was always glad to see us – with that beautiful smile on her face to greet us! She was the best mother-in-law in the world – and I don’t say that because she is gone – I told her that over and over during the 40 years I had her. Jack never missed Friday happy hour with her at her assisted living - she never guessed that was alcohol free wine he poured in her glass!! - and Tuesdays found me playing the piano at her sing-a-longs and Sundays she and I went to church together. I already miss her terribly and treasure the many joyful memories. Her body was cremated and we will have a family gathering in California at a later date.
Senior Prom at her ALF!!
Beautiful smile!!
Love you, Mina. Rest in Peace.
